Play Party

Last night we went to a play party. I have to say, it was fairly interesting. Although, I've noticed that I really enjoy the surreal quality that most of the bdsm events I've attend have. Sometimes I can't keep from grinning when I look around the room and see a group of people chatting and laughing, talking about the weather, nibbling on appetizers...and they're wearing everything from latex and leather to nothing at all. About the time I start grinning, I look down and remember I'm wearing a corset and a collar, and my grin usually turns into a giggle. Just not a scene I ever imagined I'd be comfortable in, let alone enjoy.

Anyway, the party was very cool. We got to see several friends and I really enjoyed seeing some of those friends play, since I really haven't had an opportunity to observe a lot of our friends play. It kinda gives you a deeper understanding of the people and their relationship when you see the kinds of things they're into. We got to see a lot of flogging, some work with urethral sounds (can I just say...fucking ow!), and some blood and fire play. I really enjoyed myself.

I guess for us the only down side of going to a play party like that, is that I don't think we've ever played without it leading to sex. While I enjoy watching all of the stuff thats going on, if for some reason we couldn't fuck after playing at a party like that...I'm not sure we'd even play.

Oooh, another cool thing is that I get to try fire cupping the next time we're at a party like that. One of the other doms was doing it and so Sir asked him if he'd try it on me next time and kinda give him some tips. It looks very relaxing. And I bruise pretty easy, so I'll probably look like I've got giant hickies all over me. Which is kinda cool, too.